Unlocking the Gift of Soul Paradox

Soul Paradox illuminates the tension between your calling and the fears or doubts holding you back, offering profound opportunities for self-discovery and growth. By embracing complexity and integrating opposing forces, you uncover deeper truths and align with your authentic self. This process transforms resistance into a bridge to clarity, empowering you to live with courage and purpose.


Life often presents moments where contradictions create discomfort and confusion—yet within these paradoxes lies a profound opportunity for growth and transformation.

Soul Paradox invites you to hold space for opposing forces—fear and possibility, resistance and revelation—and embrace the complexity of being human.

By engaging deeply with the layers of paradox, you uncover hidden truths, resolve fears, and move closer to the alignment of your soul’s calling.

What Is Soul Paradox?

A paradox, at its core, is a situation or statement that seems contradictory but reveals deeper truths upon exploration. The word paradox originates from the Greek paradoxon, meaning “contrary to opinion,” highlighting its role in challenging assumptions.

Soul Paradox, specifically, is the tension between the pull of your true purpose and the resistance created by fears, doubts, and beliefs that seem to hold you back.

At first glance, paradoxes may seem like roadblocks—sources of frustration that obstruct clarity and progress.

However, paradoxes are powerful teachers, offering a gateway to deeper understanding. They challenge you to question perceptions and expand awareness, inviting you to see beyond the binary of right and wrong or good and bad.

In the context of Soul Paradox, this challenge is not just intellectual; it’s deeply emotional and spiritual, pushing you to reconcile the dissonance within ourselves.

Embracing Complexity: The Path to Wholeness

Human existence itself is paradoxical—you are both finite and infinite, spiritual and physical. Soul Paradox does not demand the elimination of tension but instead encourages integration.

By sitting with and exploring these contradictions, you gain a more expansive perspective that honors the fullness of your humanity and spiritual depth.

The key to embracing paradox lies in cultivating patience and openness. Instead of rushing to resolve tensions, allow yourself to sit with them.

Acknowledge the discomfort and recognize it as a signal that deeper truths are waiting to emerge. In doing so, you shift from avoidance to engagement, paving the way for transformative insights aligning you more closely with your authentic self.

Overcoming Fear and Resistance

At the heart of paradox lies fear, often rooted in past experiences or societal conditioning.

Whether it’s fear of failure, rejection, or stepping into the unknown, these emotions serve as gateways to deeper truths.

Confronting these fears with curiosity and compassion transforms them into powerful allies, illuminating areas for healing and growth.

Resistance, too, plays a crucial role in Soul Paradox. It often arises as a defense mechanism, a way to avoid the discomfort of uncertainty or change.

By acknowledging and examining your resistance, you begin to dismantle the barriers that keep you from fully stepping into your calling.

Ask yourself: What am I resisting, and why? What would happen if I allowed myself to move through this resistance?

Practical Steps to Navigate Soul Paradox

  1. Acknowledge Resistance: Notice the discomfort that arises and name the fears or doubts present. Do your thought work  or speak with a trusted confidant to help bring these emotions to light.
  2. Reframe Fear: Explore how fear might be a signpost for growth rather than a barrier. Instead of seeing it as an enemy, view it as a guide highlighting areas that need your attention.
  3. Integrate Opposites: Find ways to honor both aspects of a paradox—the pull of your calling and the fears resisting it. Consider what each side has to teach you and explore how they might coexist.
  4. Practice Self Kindness: Treat yourself with kindness as you navigate these complexities. Paradox is a natural part of growth, and progress often unfolds in layers.
  5. Seek Support: Engage with practices or communities that resonate with you, whether it’s meditation, therapy, or spiritual guidance. These resources can provide the tools and encouragement needed to move through paradox.

Soul Paradox is not an obstacle but a bridge, guiding you toward deeper self-awareness and authenticity.

By embracing its lessons, you align more fully with your deepest inner truth. The journey requires courage and persistence, but the rewards are profound: a life lived in greater harmony with your truth.


Unlocking the Gift of Soul Paradox is the second of four articles about the transformative process of Soul Compass. Continue this series with The Art & Truth of Soul Vision.

Soul Compass: Navigate Life with Inner Truth and Vision is Cheryl’s new book. Find here a process to follow the call of your soul, resolve paradox, and thrive within aligned vision.

Find Cheryl’s books on her Amazon Author page.

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Cheryl Marlene
Cheryl Marlene, Akashic Mystic, is unafraid of the tough, the raw, and the real aspects of doing deep work. She is the world’s authority on the Akashic Records and consults in the Akashic Records with clients around the world through readings, research, and executive programs. Student learn to access the Akashic Records through ZENITH, her comprehensive four-level learning program, and her signature classic, The Akashic Records Masterclass. In the field of consciousness, she is known as a futurist, innovator, and master teacher who delivers life-changing lessons with warmth and humor. Her powerful exploration is cutting edge -- providing you with deep insight today to ignite your vision for tomorrow.

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A mystic, futurist, and trailblazer in spiritual consciousness and the Akashic Records, Cheryl is unafraid of the tough, the raw, and the real aspects of doing deep work.

Cheryl has expanded the collective understanding of the Akashic Records beyond the outdated myths of yesterday into a dynamic healing spiritual practice of divine and human consciousness. She consults in the Akashic Records with clients around the world through one-on-one sessions, extensive research, and future-driven, strategic business development.

Cheryl’s clients and students know her as a relatable, funny, everyday person who loves red dresses, urban fantasy books, and skinny margaritas. When she is not hard at work on her next book, she is on the hiking trail listening to the beauty of nature and the heartbeat of the mountain.

Through her journey, she has distilled her intention for life to these seven words: BELIEVE. Laugh. Learn. Love. Be. Become. Always.